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April 9, 2006

Spring Smorgasbord

April8-Smorgasbord6.jpgMany women I know are in that stage of their lives when they suddenly realize they are becoming just like their mothers. For some it might be a phrase coming out of their mouths that they vowed they'd never use on their own daughters; for others, familiar lines or bulges that suddenly appear in the mirror. I had one of those moments of recognition yesterday, but what I saw in the mirror wasn't a physical resemblance to my mother. No, it was the dull brown clump of lilac seed husks stuck in my hair. This time of year, when I visit my mother I'm likely to pull at least one leaf or twig out of her hair after a few hours of gardening. I've never found the whole idea of leaf mold or bugs dropping on my head and the dark lines of dirt in the calluses and under the fingernails all that appealing. But even though I've straightened up from a planting bed or bout of pruning to say to myself, "There, I've finished with the yard work", within a week the sun will be shining gorgeously again and I'll find something else that needs doing. Like pruning the ancient lichen-covered lilac that last week I said would wait until next year. It's almost as if I like back-breaking labour.

Now why couldn't Richard have inherited the gardening gene from his green-thumbed mother? It's not that he doesn't appreciate plants, landscaping, even flowers – he does – but he lacks empathy for growing things. After weeks tied up with work he was ready, yesterday, to do the fruit tree pruning that should have been done before the buds came out and the sap started running. Despite all my efforts to rein him in with cautions about pruning this late, cutting down more than half the tree, and just generally fearing the affect on fruit production of another violent pruning, he did it again. More than half the cherry and the crabapple gone in a few quick swipes of the chain saw. I stood back cringing on behalf of each tree. Any time I tried to argue, Richard pointed to his earplugs and carried on. Below is a shot on the left of the crabapples a month ago, and on the right, part way through Richard's pruning job.

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April8-Pruning5.jpg It's probably a good thing that the columbine seeds I sowed beneath the crabapple didn't germinate, because I would have been more sad to see it come up only to wilt away in the heat now that there won't be any shade along that wall. I agreed that it was necessary to take out almost as much of the crabapple as we did – and the diseased one next to it had to be cut down – but this late in the spring, the neighbour confirmed that the sap will attract bugs and disease, the cuts may not callus over, and I'm worried that with the tree having been so long and leggy, there isn't enough leaf cover left to sustain the tree. The cherry, though more branches were removed, might be better off because it's still quite densely covered in buds. If it doesn't have a fit at the pruning, the remaining branches should be happy with the increased light down the centre, anyway. And if we can keep it this height, we'll actually be able to reach the cherries! (If there are any this year.)

In addition to the dying crabapple, we removed the mountain ash that was interfering with our chestnut and pine in the back, and two stumps of firs left in the front yard when we bought the place. One of the growing firs had a really long branch sticking out over the drive, which became a smorgasbord for the goats at the back fence. The rest went on the burn pile along with my lilac trimmings and a few cropped bits from the apple trees. The ashes from the bonfire were still smoking this morning despite rainfall last night, but there isn't a needle left on that six foot branch of fir. (The billy goat, Neru, is getting so big I keep thinking of the Minotaur – he looks like a bull and if I got too close he'd eat my camera.) This week we'll add all the scrap wood and twiggy weed stalks from last fall from around the barn to the pile.

April8-Burning2.jpgOur plan for Easter is another large bonfire and three more days of hard labour with Bev, Colleen and Jorge, as well as Peter, the Mulag sales rep visiting from Germany (who found himself roped into hauling wood for hours yesterday). We're going to tear down all the remaining pens from around the barn and hopefully clear out the interior as well. Here are views from the front facing the house and from the back by the rear gate. Bev helped us do all the pens on the east side last spring so she'll be an expert at chicken wire removal this time around!

I hope spending the day in the chicken coop doesn't ruin our appetites for the free-range turkey Colleen and Jorge are bringing for Easter dinner.

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April8-Flora2.jpgMmm, that reminds me. What tastes great with greens? Ten-year-old fleece and new denim, of course. I was able to get a bit closer to Flora with the camera this weekend, because she wouldn't leave me alone until she'd satisfied her curiosity about the flavour of my sweatshirt, my jeans and my boot laces. Once I let her get the fabric between her teeth (after fending her off to the point where it was either be knocked over backward, just let her taste, or scare her away forever), she didn't do the quick tug technique she uses to rip lilac buds off my bushes. She just rubbed it between her bottom teeth and upper plate, not gumming it up at all, and then let go. Whew. Although it was pretty funny crouching on the lawn with my arms around her neck, laughing as I tried to keep her from taking a bite out of me. It's too bad people with cameras distract her, or that would have made an even better photo. Next weekend should be interesting, when Colleen and Jorge's dogs are here. I wonder if they'll chase Flora, or will it be Flora gleefully chasing them? She runs like a gazelle but with twisty little kicks sometimes as if her back half doesn't know where her front half is going. So much fun to watch.

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Posted by anita at April 9, 2006 5:08 PM

Comments

Another great piece, Anita! You really had me wondering for a bit what bad habit of mine you inherited! The gardening one - hah!
I remember the day very clearly about 7-8 years ago, standing in my garden, you stated very firmly that you would never get a big garden and spend your days with your be-hind up in the air! And when you started talking about gardening, I thought to myself - she's got the bug!

Antia, it is inevitable that we women eventually become our mothers. I realized this years ago, in my discussions with my friends Terry and Elaine, my Wise Women. I am terrified of becoming my mother, and I resist and accept it at the same time, if that makes any sense.

There are worse things than having lilac seeds stuck to your hair! I wish that's all I inherited from my mom.

Flora is just so cute! I'm so glad I got to see her when she was an hour old; that was very special.

Hey, is the thresher gone? I can't see it in any of the pics.

The thresher is there... it's just artfully disguised under that giant grey tarp. But once we take out the hut that housed the peacocks and remove all the chicken wire, the thresher could be moved directly behind the barn so we can't see it from the rest of the yard. Only it's pretty difficult to move. Next time Rob visits, maybe. I'm really looking forward to the view once those pens are all gone, although in the fall the covering of Virginia creeper was gorgeous when it turned red. I considered transplanting one of the vines to the back fence where the goats would keep it in check, but judging by the creeper under our deck, it's really uncontrollable stuff and probably should be dug up and burnt. I have enough weed problems.

Speaking of which, time to yank up some weeds that have rooted right over my patch of lily bulbs. They're the ones Jonathan ripped out of the ground last spring, I just wasn't sure what they were until now. Sure sign of a weed: dozens of them sprouting up willy-nilly all over the yard. I might have inherited a green thumb but I still hate weeding, especially prickly things like this. Why is it the hardiest plants are also the thorniest? Thistles, for example, take a beating as if it were encouragement. Aaarrggh! Well, off to work.